Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Jesus Glasses

 1 Samuel 16:7New Life Version (NLV)
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at the way he looks on the outside or how tall he is, because I have not chosen him. For the Lord does not look at the things man looks at. A man looks at the outside of a person, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

Isaiah 6:10New Life Version (NLV)
10 Make the hearts of these people hard. May their ears hear little and their eyes see little. Or they will see with their eyes and hear with their ears and understand with their hearts, and turn again and be healed.”


X-Ray vision is a super power.  I am not one to want to possess this super power.  However, I do wish that I would be reminded that I need to have the super power of being a noticer.  What I mean by that, is just simply stop being so wrapped up in my feelings and pay more attention to others and the hurting world around me.  My eyes distort things around me making it impossible to see what HE sees.  I just wish I could purchase some “Jesus Glasses” that would give me His vision.    

Jesus lived a perfect life, modeling how we should treat one another.  He didn’t look at one person any different than the next.  His love was pure and whole.  He didn’t just see the outside of the person, but what that person carried on the inside.  

Today I passed a sweet friend and noticed that her eyes were heavier than normal.  She didn’t look tired, but she looked worn.  Worn from stress that is eating inside of her.  Just stopping to ask how she was, took a brief second.  However, I feel that she needed more than just a brief moment in my time.  So tomorrow, I am going to make it a point to reach out and make sure that she feels God’s love for her through me.  

Be a noticer.  Be someone who takes the anger, hurt, sad, etc. and helps in a way that He would want us to be.  We are his disciples, doing His work for Him in a dark world.  Be the light that this world needs.  

Be Blessed!





Wednesday, September 27, 2017

The Rollercoaster

Matthew 6:33

“If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

Isaiah 41:10New Life Version (NLV)
10 Do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will give you strength, and for sure I will help you. Yes, I will hold you up with My right hand that is right and good.

It amazes me how quickly we can loose sight of HIM and His purpose for our lives.  Over the past 3 weeks, there has been an emotional rollercoaster that many of us have been riding.  We all have so much to be grateful for, but the rollercoaster ride is exhausting.  Being out of a normal routine can be exhausting and confusing.  By the time “normal” rolls around, I seem to have lost my way and my purpose in a never ending fog.  I want to curl up with a bowl of ice cream and Oreos, binge watch a new series on Netflix, and do nothing, say nothing, be nothing.  So, none of that actually happened, although the ice cream and Oreos would have been nice, but I was lost.  I usually have my husband to help me snap out of the “funk”, but he was out of town.  Why did I feel lost?  Because I wasn’t truly leaning on HIM.   

God doesn’t intend on us to go through the valleys alone.   When we are at our weakest or feel the most broken, He is fighting hard for us.  He doesn’t, and won’t ever, leave us.  I know all of this, but so quickly I forget.  I think I have the attention span of a fly when it comes to relying on Him and regaining my strength in and through Him.  So no matter what rollercoaster you are riding, know that God is taking care of each and every one of the ups/downs/dips/turns.  


Be Blessed!

Thursday, September 21, 2017

The Splinters in Life

2 Corinthians 1:3 -14The Message (MSG)
The Rescue
3-5 He comes alongside us when we go through hard times, and before you know it, he brings us alongside someone else who is going through hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us. We have plenty of hard times that come from following the Messiah, but no more so than the good times of his healing comfort—we get a full measure of that, too.
6-7 When we suffer for Jesus, it works out for your healing and salvation. If we are treated well, given a helping hand and encouraging word, that also works to your benefit, spurring you on, face forward, unflinching. Your hard times are also our hard times. When we see that you’re just as willing to endure the hard times as to enjoy the good times, we know you’re going to make it, no doubt about it.
8-11 We don’t want you in the dark, friends, about how hard it was when all this came down on us…It was so bad we didn’t think we were going to make it. We felt like we’d been sent to death row, that it was all over for us. As it turned out, it was the best thing that could have happened. Instead of trusting in our own strength or wits to get out of it, we were forced to trust God totally—not a bad idea since he’s the God who raises the dead! And he did it, rescued us from certain doom. And he’ll do it again, rescuing us as many times as we need rescuing. You and your prayers are part of the rescue operation—I don’t want you in the dark about that either. I can see your faces even now, lifted in praise for God’s deliverance of us, a rescue in which your prayers played such a crucial part.
12-14 Now that the worst is over, we’re pleased we can report that we’ve come out of this with conscience and faith intact, and can face the world—and even more importantly, face you with our heads held high. But it wasn’t by any fancy footwork on our part. It was God who kept us focused on him, uncompromised. Don’t try to read between the lines or look for hidden meanings in this letter. We’re writing plain, unembellished truth, hoping that you’ll now see the whole picture as well as you’ve seen some of the details. We want you to be as proud of us as we are of you when we stand together before our Master Jesus.

Last night Hunter, my almost 11 year old, had a splinter.  It was a tiny, but a mighty, splinter.  He didn’t want me to touch it, but wanted to take care of it himself.  It was the tiniest thing, but was causing him some pain.  After he successfully pulled it out, he asked why did something so small cause so much pain.  Then he followed it with a question that has been rolling through my head the last few weeks, “Why does God cause pain or bad things to happen?”  I looked at him and told him the truth, “I don’t know, but what I do know is that we learn from these experiences.   For example, I wanted to take control of pulling out the splinter, but you didn’t want me to touch it.  I had to sit and let you take control, which is hard for me to do.  Hunter, what you learned is that you can do something even though it can be painful.  The pain is temporary, but you survived.”  

Now I know that a splinter is a tiny, minuscule object compared to the pain and suffering that many of us have overcome, and still overcoming, over the last few weeks.   C. S. Lewis, who watched his beloved wife die of cancer, put it this way: "But pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world."  

We don’t know what eternity looks like.  We don’t even know what tomorrow looks like, but what I do know is that HE works everything out for our good.  

My prayer today is that wherever you are is that you take a moment and truly pray for those effected by the recent hurricanes, Harvey, Irma, and now Maria.  Let’s use this opportunity to be HIS megaphone and reflect HIS love through our actions and words.  


Be Blessed!

Thursday, September 14, 2017

Let your ACTIONS be louder than your words

James 1:22-25The Message (MSG)
22-24 Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are a listener when you are anything but, letting the Word go in one ear and out the other. Act on what you hear! Those who hear and don’t act are like those who glance in the mirror, walk away, and two minutes later have no idea who they are, what they look like.
25 But whoever catches a glimpse of the revealed counsel of God—the free life!—even out of the corner of his eye, and sticks with it, is no distracted scatterbrain but a man or woman of action. That person will find delight and affirmation in the action.

1 Peter 1:13 New Life Version (NLV)
13 Get your minds ready for good use. Keep awake. Set your hope now and forever on the loving-favor to be given you when Jesus Christ comes again.

Galatians 6:9-10The Message (MSG)
9-10 So let’s not allow ourselves to get fatigued doing good. At the right time we will harvest a good crop if we don’t give up, or quit. Right now, therefore, every time we get the chance, let us work for the benefit of all, starting with the people closest to us in the community of faith.

This week, as I have witnessed actions in Florida from a distance, I have seen the good and bad come to surface on social media.  I am not there and am not living in the midst of the heat, sweat, and tears, which tears me up inside.  In these weak moments, we are the most vulnerable to  lash out, be disgusted with others, and think about the negative in the situation.  It can be so hard to not drown in the negative.  

Step outside for a moment and look at what you have around you.  Put your hand over your heart and be grateful for the thump you feel under you palm.  The destruction will be cleaned up and will be remembered.  However, actions will be remembered more than anything else.  Help others, build others up through you words, show a kind heart, and HE will be reflected in your ACTIONS.  


Be blessed!

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Through the Lens of Love

Ephesians 4:2New Life Version (NLV)
Live and work without pride. Be gentle and kind. Do not be hard on others. Let love keep you from doing that.

Romans 15:7New Life Version (NLV)
Receive each other as Christ received you. This will honor God.

Proverbs 4:23New Life Version (NLV)
23 Keep your heart pure for out of it are the important things of life.

I’m currently reading a book that my grandfather had given my father who had given it to me.  I actually opened the book last Friday not realizing what day it was until after I began reading, it was my parents 44th wedding anniversary.  My father was looking down on me and nudging me to read this book.  In fact, I remember when he gave it to me, I internally rolled my eyes, like a teenager would do, and put it on my shelf.  The book is titled “The Greatest Salesman in the World” by Og Mandino.  In this book, he lays out the principles we should live by in order to be successful.  

The first principle is this: “View everyone and everything through the lens of love”.  This can be easy for some, but not most of us.  You have to have a change of perspective.  You have to have an open heart and mind.  You have to “check your face” and attitude.  God intends for us to reflect His love.  When faced with adversity, it is hard to confront it with silence and slap it in the face with the phrase, “I love you”.   

God intends on us to live a life feeling loved.  For those who don’t know His love, how will they unless we greet them with that love.  

It is not meant to be easy on our own, but “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you…If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him (Matthew 7:7-11).”


Be Blessed!  

Wednesday, August 23, 2017

My Prayer

Exodus 18:17-18Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)
17 “What you’re doing is not good,” Moses’ father-in-law said to him. 18 “You will certainly wear out both yourself and these people who are with you, because the task is too heavy for you. You can’t do it alone.”

Psalm 46:10New Life Version (NLV)
10 Be quiet and know that I am God. I will be honored among the nations. I will be honored in the earth.

Life can be very chaotic.  To the point of where we fill out time and life with the little things that don’t truly matter.  After really digging and reflecting on my heart and life this summer, I realized that I had a huge issue with “gluttony”. Not gluttony of over eating, but gluttony of over scheduling.  This is a prayer I wrote after a good, soul searching summer.  

My prayer…
As I come home from a reflective summer in Nashville, I feel excited, anxious, full of life, and strength.  This past year my plate of life was full.  Full of planned activities and events.  My goal was “to do more and be more for others”.  In doing that, I was saving the leftovers for my family.  I was swimming up stream and having no emotional energy for my family.  Even when I was present with my family, I wasn’t truly “present”.  The list that I had in my head was ongoing and taking up my brain space to the point that I could sit and be with my kids, but I truly wasn’t “being” with them.  

So I HAVE to change.  I’m going to take what has been engrained within my heart and soul and put it into action.  I’m going to block out periods of time for my devotionals and time with You.  I’m going to spend more time with Adam and being intentional about that time.  I’m going to pour into others, but not at the expense of the ones I love most.  I will set boundaries and arrange my schedule so that I am not stretched beyond my mental abilities.  

In this next season of life, I pray that I stay strong in giving time to my faith, marriage, kids, and our business.  Lord, please help me to stay focused on these goals that you have laid on my heart.  

Your loving and devoted daughter, 

Laura 





Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Row Boat vs. Sailboat

Isaiah 26:3New Life Version (NLV)
You will keep the man in perfect peace whose mind is kept on You, because he trusts in You.

Psalm 62:8The Message (MSG)
7-8 
My help and glory are in God
    —granite-strength and safe-harbor-God—
So trust him absolutely, people;
    lay your lives on the line for him.
    God is a safe place to be.

James 1:2-4The Message (MSG)
Faith Under Pressure
2-4 Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors. So don’t try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not deficient in any way.

Row Boat vs. Sailboat

This summer a dear friend and I were reflecting on different times in our lives and how God has really steered us through them even when we didn't understand “why” we were in that season.  Enters the “Row Boat vs. Sailboat” analogy.  

When we are in the midst of rough seas in our lives, we tend to work harder to stay ahead.  We start to loose focus and work harder to beat the winds around us.  We feel like we have waves coming at us from all sides.  We want to take charge of the direction we are going.  We keep our minds focused on our goals and destinations.  You have a “rowboat” mentality.  

Instead, we need to let God flow through us naturally.  We need Him to work in and through us to guide the boat, but let the wind do all of the work.  His wind is a lot stronger than our work.  God doesn’t intend to make us work harder, but to reflect and learn from situations and more forward.  We can do this by staying focused on HIM and Him do His work in and through us.  Let his love be the wind in our sails.  

Be Blessed!  

P.S.

Katherine Caputo, you are a dear friend that reminds me that God is large and in charge.  Love you sister!